There are a few basic guide lines you need to follow if you decide you feel comfortable dating or even dating again. The most important rule is to be honest. Be honest with yourself, with each other and especially be honest with God. Love is a very beautiful thing when you approach it with honesty. You should become comfortable talking about your relationship with Jesus Christ. It is a well-known fact that people who pray together stay together.

It is best to set physical standards so that you will maintain your purity and self-control during the relationship. Makes plans to meet other couples or friends when you date. Too much time alone is never a good idea. Alone time is fine but that is where a lot of couples get into trouble. If you meet your friend at Church there are countless activities you can do together. You will be around mutual friends and there is a great comfort level being with your church family.

  Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness? 2 Corinthians 6:14 NKJV. It is never a good idea to date someone who is not a Christian. Never believe another person who tells you they can change. Never trust someone who is doing things that you know is wrong and that somehow they will stop if the two of you will get married. Actions always speak louder than words.

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